“Practice the pause – Prospect & Flourish Every Day quote on listening and trust.”

“Practice the pause: ‘What I think I hear you saying is…’”

September 23, 20250 min read

Clarify, reflect, confirm. That’s how trust grows.

[Lesson 3.3] Conversations can go sideways when we assume instead of confirm. By pausing to reflect back—“What I think I hear you saying is…”—you signal respect, attentiveness, and care. This simple practice prevents misunderstandings, validates the other person, and deepens trust. The pause may feel small, but it’s a powerful discipline that turns routine exchanges into relationship builders.

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Keith Luscher is the creator of the Prospect & Flourish program, a trust-first prospecting and business development system for service-driven professionals. He is also managing partner of SYP Media, LLC, where he helps leaders and teams align structure, rhythm, and growth.

Keith F. Luscher

Keith Luscher is the creator of the Prospect & Flourish program, a trust-first prospecting and business development system for service-driven professionals. He is also managing partner of SYP Media, LLC, where he helps leaders and teams align structure, rhythm, and growth.

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